how to wake people up the right way

I saw this today and thought it would make a great episode we could all probably do with an up-skill in the area of waking people up, as much as i want to wake up my friends and family, ("punch them in the mouth" as no agenda would lovingly put it) i know i don't have the skills to plant those seeds, but want that in my toolkit. https://www.kacper.blog/post/how-to-talk-to-brainwashed-people-and-wake-them-up-the-right-way
https://attendcandles.com/vsl